I'm Kelsey, a dating coach for women

I help women like you (yes, you!) build confidence, strategically date, and attract men that you are excited to date.
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After facing challenges attracting the right man, self-love and maintaining a healthy relationship for years (even during my master's program!), I came to the realization that no one ever guides us in these areas. I was astonished by the lack of resources to learn how to attract and sustain a healthy relationship.

Drawing upon my training as a licensed therapist, I took it upon myself to create the courses I needed for during my own dating journey. What initially started as a personal quest to overcome my own struggles has evolved into a comprehensive system that has assisted 1,000s of clients in fostering strong self-relationships and attracting the right healthy partner they desire.

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I feel like a badass after investing in myself and learning the skills to truly accept and love myself. I finally feel like when I choose a partner, it will be because they're amazing and fit into my life, not because I need them in order to feel worthy.

Katie B.

Emily Z.

This program was so instrumental in my recovery from a broken heart and finally learning how to have a healthy relationship. Forever grateful for the wisdom shared here.

I can’t begin to express the deep transformation that occurred in every aspect of my life

Rebecca Night

After using Kelsey's signature dating app bio strategy, I can say I'm less overwhelmed with dating. I have fewer matches to sift through and they are all QUALITY men with all the traits I'm looking for!! Thank you for bringing some much-valued light into this wild dating world!

Lauren P.

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I'd love to send you 3 FREE dating guides & trainings I only share with women in my email fam:

  1. 📱 3 Musts for Your Dating App Bio
    Attract higher-quality matches on dating apps, fast.
  2. 👻 The Ghosting Guide
    Exactly what to do when you think you've been ghosted
  3. 👩🏼‍💻 Free Masterclass
    Learn what is and is NOT required to attract and *sustain* a healthy relationship.